Melissa Kacar

they say people never change is a playlist built around songs that inspire growth and personal reflection, especially when looking at all of the ways we change over time. It is curated in a more personal manner than the conceptual or sonic themes I usually build my song collections around. There is still a particular through line across these 50 songs though, with each one reflecting some facet of growth or self‑reinvention. Some take that idea in a more abstract direction, others more literally, but together they form a portrait of what it means to evolve. I felt inspired to share this playlist today because it officially marks nine years since I first posted on my blog. It's surreal to look back on how much time has passed since my first makeup review all those years ago, along with the hundreds of posts I've written since then for over a million readers ! My writing has changed and evolved so much through those years, and I feel so much more confident in what it means to sh...

Inhaler 's debut album,  It Won't Always Be Like This , is deeply indicative of their desire to make something that felt reflective of the moment in history it was created in and served as such a strong introduction to these fresh, young voices in rock music. Even just five years in hindsight, it already feels like such a time capsule in many ways, thematically capturing what the world was experiencing in real time in an attempt to make sense of it all and push back against the injustices surrounding them.  It remains among their best work, shaped by the direction they were beginning to carve out for themselves and the future for the band. So much of this music reflects who they were at that point and where they were headed artistically, hinting at the influences and stylistic choices they would continue to sharpen and develop with each record that followed. Each song is anchored by these big choruses and largely forward thinking, optimistic ideals that almost give off a sense...

Even though Miley Cyrus herself didn't write "Party in the U.S.A." , it still largely mirrors much of her own experience moving from Tennessee to California to achieve the American Dream and feeling homesick as she tries to find her place in the new city. In doing so, it also captures so much of her signature personality as well and is what she called an "all-American song" in a 2010 interview with MTV News .  Since its release in 2009, the song has garnered an impactful legacy as one of the defining songs of Miley's career . In many ways, "Party in the U.S.A." had an interesting journey long before she ever recorded it. It was originally written with the intent of being included on Jessie J 's debut album, but she decided to not record it as it didn't align with the style she was going for at the time. The song was meant to share her culture shock of being a British transplant moving to Los Angeles, which reflected in much of the scrapped...

"Relationships" served as the lead single off of HAIM 's 2025 album I quit and in many ways embodies the ethos of what the entire project represents. The song basks in the rush of leaving behind what - and who - no longer serves you or benefits your life - finally having the ability to fully live in the independence and freedom that comes with letting go of everything you once felt was holding you back.  As this song progresses, it feels like all of the baggage starts to fall to the wayside and the realization sets in that you're the one in control of your own life, the people that you allow to take space in it, and the energy you give to it. Throughout this song, Danielle continuously circles back to the blunt and necessary question that shapes it all - "Why am I in this relationship?" It largely feels aligned with the new version of yourself you're becoming in that process of self-discovery, with the all-encompassing and often bittersweet feelings o...